Sunday, September 8, 2013

How Ambipur saved the day!

Leaving home and coming to the big city was a huge cultural shock for me in a lot of ways. Most of all, the change in food habits, timings and none availability of certain vegetables and food items that were taken for granted at home.

The truth is, we people from Nagaland and Manipur and most of the Northeastern States have what people out here like to call, exotic food habits and a weird diet. It was also a terrible feeling to be judged for what you eat and what you drink. I know of friends and acquaintances being thrown out of their rented flats because they cooked non-vegetarian items.  

Of course, some of the items of our staple diet definitely calls for a sense of adventure and a love for our fermented food items like Bamboo shoot, Axone (fermented soya beans) and Nari (fermented dried fish) are acquired tastes at best. These three items invariably get us in trouble because they all have distinctly pungent aromas when being cooked. But hey! we grew up eating them and enjoy them and crave for them like people out here love their lassi and golgappas and the myriad other dishes they crave for.

Househunting is a huge frustrating adventure, especially for us from the Northeast as Landlords would always ask of our food habits and warn us not to cook "non-veg". Lucky for me, I have always had great and sporting landlords who were openminded and accommodating. But my friends and cousins have not been so lucky. 

I had this cousin who kept inviting me to come over to her tiny rented flat and cook her something special. She had a tiny kitchen and strict instructions not to cook anything "Non-vegetarian" or in other words any "Strong aromatic dishes typical of the Northeasterners". Most days I would cook something from my place and take it over to hers but on one particular occasion, she was unwell and I had been nursing her. She had been craving for some Naga style food and she begged me to cook something special. I would have gone off to my place, cooked and brought it over but there was no way I could leave her alone in her weak state. And she looked so sad that I had to take the risk of whipping up some pungent Naga dishes to cheer her up.
I decided to cook her some pork with bamboo shoot with hot chutney made from green chillies and dried fish. I went out to get some fresh meat. The other ingredients were safely stowed in her kitchen's tuck box.

Now, the risk of being caught was great. There was no way we could mask the strong scent the items we would be cooking. We knew that the moment the bamboo shoot got boiling, it would fill up the house with its strong smell which would undoubtedly assail the Landlady's nostrils and she would rush to our floor banging the doors demanding an explanation and worst case scenario, my cousin might have to vacate her flat.  But she convinced me to go ahead.

You see, cooking all these dishes with strong aromas does have a negative side. My fridge gets filled with the pungent aroma, and my curtains hold remnants of the scent that becomes pretty strong for me too sometimes. I have tried to combat it with potpourri but the combination often became quite the opposite of soothing. Room fresheners and sprays didn't help much and there just wasn't enough fresh air inspite of running the fans full on after a cooking session. 

After buying the meat, I stopped at a store to grab a room freshener all the same as I didn't have much of a choice. The salesman talked me into buying an Ambipur room spray that I hadn't tried before. He said it would turn my day around as it totally worked on the strongests of odours. I was in a rush to get back and so I hurriedly paid for it and got to my cooking. It was then that I remembered that I had an Ambipur Set  Refresh sample somewhere in my bag which I had recently received by signing up for a free sample on Indiblogger.in for an ongoing competition. I fished it out and place it the living room. Mmmm!Tthe room was instantly filled with the scent of Vanilla and Lavender. My favourite scents.

Halfway through my cooking session, I also took the precautionary measure of thoroughly spraying the living room, hallway and bathroom with the new Ambipur spray. It smelled of spring and happy days of childhood. It was called Blossom and Breeze. The kitchen was fast filling up with the aroma of bamboo shoot and I was slightly alarmed. But my cousin was asking if I had started cooking as she couldn't smell anything except for some floral waves from her bed. That was something!

After some  more cooking, I had to let out some steam by getting the exhaust working. Wrong move. The aroma had escaped from our kitchen to the landlady's floor. I could hear the lady ask from two floors above where the stench was coming from. I was alarmed. I sprayed quite a bit of the new spray in the kitchen area and five minutes later, coolly went to answer the door. The bell had started ringing. After all, we were the obvious culprits.

The landlady and her daughter stood at the landing. The lady was quite red in the face, fuming and demanding to know what we were cooking and why there was a funny smell coming from our flat. 
She had a look of triumph on her face as she spelt out that she had warned us not to cook non-vegetarian stuff and now that she had caught us redhanded, we would have to get out of her place minus the security money. I got a bit worried for my cousin but decided to hold my tongue.

I put on my most nonchalant face and said I had no idea what she was talking about. What smell? 
She demanded to be let in and I ushered her in. She suspiciously walked from room to room and to the kitchen and back but there was no hint of the offending smell here. Rather, the flat smelled like a garden. "Mamma, it's not from here" her daughter finally said and they went off sulkily. 

As soon as I had the door closed, I couldn't help letting out a whoop of joy and a prayer of thanks to Ambipur. It had totally saved us by transforming the flat from smelly to fresh and happy and thus averting a disaster. 

What a happy day! My cousin wanted to know how I had pulled it off. I was more than happy to share with her my Ambipur Hero of the hour story. Now my cousin can cook whatever she want and spray her flat up right after. Post lunch, I went out to the store again and bought an entire range of room sprays and fresheners, half for my cousin and the rest for me. When I said thanks to the sales boy, he could only beam and say, I told you so. 

As for me and my cousin, we have decided to make Axone with pork accompanied by Naga King chilli at her place this weekend and we have our Ambipur room fresheners handy. Always. And they are supposed to last and last. They do linger on lovingly, instantly refreshing you and your home.

This is a true story recounted for "The Smelly to Smiley" contest.

Thursday, August 29, 2013

The many scents of life.


Image from the Internet.
I think it is amazing how memories are kept warm and alive by the scents that are associated with them.
I always feel a keen sense of nostalgia when I smell oranges. It always takes me back to happy saturdays from my childhood when we would accompany a dear cousin to the paddy fields and while the grownups worked, we children would pick the ripe orange fruits off the trees surrounding the resting hut. There were oranges, guavas, pears, pomegranates, passion fruit, cucumbers, peaches and cherries, all ready to be picked at different seasons year round.

Smoke would be billowing from the tiny hut where delicious smoked beef galho (a Naga dish of meat, vegetables and rice cooked together and served with green King chilli chutney) would be stewing over the fire, for lunch. We would collect dry twigs for the fire in the morning, on the way to the fields; fetch water from up stream of the canals irrigating the fields and spend the afternoon chasing dragonflies until we had to return home, carrying baskets of fragrant oranges and guavas. Those were the scents of my happy Saturdays of my childhood.

Another favourite memory would have to do with my mother's scent. Mother has always been fond of perfumes and as a child, I would lovingly gaze at the pretty bottles on her dresser until she would spray a little on me, on Sunday mornings as we got ready for church. Over the years, I have come to recognize her unique scent in a bottle of Chanel No. 5 though what she owned wasn't quite the real Chanel. But I feel like a little girl whenever I get a whiff of the scent. While Mother would be busy tying my hair into a pony tail, I would revel in the warmth of her presence and scent. It makes me feel loved and special and I get flashes of us dancing to ABBA songs while her colourful skirts would be swirling around me.

Home. So many happy thoughts and scents. I love the scent of pine and  firewood at the family hearth in Kohima. Christmas, my favourite time of the year is defined by the happy carols and the wonderful smells of baked goodies and fragrant sticky rice cakes being fried in our kitchen. And how can I forget to mention the sizzling aroma of meat being smoked or roasted for the festivities? There is such a happy buzz all over the place. All the scents and noise makes you feel like all is well and nothing could ever go wrong in life. Makes me long for Christmas and home all the time.

Another homey ritual is hot cocoa for the kids and coffee for the grownups, with cookies and cakes on Sunday nights when the family gathers for the evening prayers. I am not big on drinking coffee but my head is filled with images of my Dad making coffee noisily in the kitchen and serving everyone. I love waking up to the scent of early morning coffee in winters when holidaying at home. I miss my Dad whenever I smell coffee while away from home and I often give him a call then and there. There is this New Years Eve tradition of gifting assorted cakes and cookies to neighbours at midnight while exchanging warm wishes and blessings. Excited kids that we were, we would feast on the goodies from the neighbours at midnight and be put to bed, and later wake up to the unique smells of New Years Day - more cakes, meats and yummy treats.

 My happiest times in adult life have happened often in the winters of Delhi, a stroll at India Gate or Lodhi Gardens, the evenings thick with the scent of jasmine as little boys ran around at traffic stops with strings of jasmine flowers for sale. I am a generous customer to these precocious sellers. They are often generous too and give me a good deal. I hang them near my bed so that I can get a teasing whiff as I sleep. These are new scents that I love, besides all the other smells I associate with the home I grew up in. I now realize that this is my journey of life, punctuated by distinct smells at different intervals. Moving from the scent of fresh grass on the lawns, after the rains back home in Kohima, oranges, roses, guavas and fresh air of the hills to the wafts of drying jasmine, potpourri and room fresheners that help me create a comforting and cosy world here in my room, in the big bad city of Delhi I now call home, it's been quite a journey.

My new world is now a mix of new and old scents. Of coffee from the vending machines, the many human scents on the metro, a whiff of expensive perfume at the malls, in the office, a hint of cardamon, sometimes garlic and other times, the strong stench of the City reminding me of the struggles of life beating down on you when you are on your own. But when I get back to my room, I'm enveloped by happy scents. Back in the midst of familiar scents - of loved ones, some new but dear and all the little things in my space that I have come to love and call home. And I can only smile and wonder how a whiff of air can turn your world around and take you from place to place.



This is an entry for Indiblogger.in & Ambipur's  "Smelly to Smiley" contest. Find out more by clicking here.



Thursday, August 15, 2013

sunday picnic



sunday picnic

This is what I am feeling. Something yellow. Some peachy romantic lace. Nude flats. A little black. Kitty love and shorts. Yeah. And I have to learn to ride a bicycle ASAP.


Slim shirt
$23 - thehut.com


Mossimo shirt
target.com


Martone Cycling Co gold top
$1,150 - avenue32.com



Cole haan flat
colehaan.com


Buckle handbag
$20 - newlook.com



Enamel jewelry
$4.56 - newlook.com


Rut&Circle round sunglasses
$18 - nelly.com

Nothing

www.favim.com

in my darkest moments
i know you have deserted me
you have made up your mind to forget me
you refuse to allow me in
i cannot find my way in
and my pain is strong and raw

i want to be inside your flesh
running in your veins your blood
be the air that passes through your nostrils
the morsels on your taste buds
that your saliva engulfs 
and draw into your depths

how could you give our love away
and bind yourself to someone else
you called it magic
what we had
and that is what it has become
in the past tense

i am the dust 
you swept under your door mat
bitter is my heart
to know this the harsh truth
i never meant much to you
not half the things you meant to me
i am nothing
less than dust
no trace of me on you
nothing


Sunday, July 7, 2013

Accidents of time.

Will anything fill up this emptiness?
The words unspoken.
I am trying to be strong.
But I don't know how to be anymore.
Should I grieve and mourn?
My heart is heavy and my tears ready.
Collateral damage of an inconsequential life.
It just wasn't your time or mine.
And here we go, smiling and eating and cooking
Like nothing ever happened.
But life has come to a standstill.
Something has died in me.
Your being became a momentary blip.
A faint flicker on the canvas of my space.
A part of my soul I gave up on.
In a universe that doesn't care.
And has made me equally uncaring.

Forgive me.
The crimes of my time.
The blood and the tears.
The folly of my age.
Accidents of recklessness.
My inability to be who I wanted to be.
And yet this is who I am.

Set me free.
From regret.
Heartache.
Fear and nightmares.
Grant me peace and another chance.



Saturday, June 15, 2013

Apo and me


This one is for the one man who has always been there for me.


Apo!Apo!
Lift me up again on to your shoulder
And show me the twinkling lights of Kohima.
Seat me under the pear tree and bounce me on your knees.
Sing me the song about aeroplanes and trains you saw in Dimapur.
Get me an ice cream from there too and not just papayas and litchees.
Tell me again about the big buses that ply in Kohima.
When are we moving to town to our new house?
Did you hear the song I sang for your from the balcony last week?
Why did you come home looking like a stranger and make me cry?
I love the black hat that you brought home.
And the big umbrella I can sit under and play.
Sing me some hindi songs again please?
Can I try my hand at your typewriter?

Apa! Apa!
Let's go for a ride on your noisy bike please.
I swear I won't fall off, I will cling to you like how you showed me to.
Please take me to the river again and teach me how to catch a fish.
Let's go check the bamboo grooves and catch some frogs.
I chewed so much gum today, we can glue many cicadas for sure.
Show me how to lift the latch and launch a catapult.
Now I know how to dress a chicken and cut wood the right way.
Help me lift this basket to my head. Oh! So that's how it is done?
Let's go buy a radio and some jeans.
And can I have some singaras too?

Apa! Apa!
Take me to town to eat chow and momos.
And say hello to the azaleas at the War Cemetery.
Or maybe have chai and puri at your office canteen.
Those aunties might give me a piece of cake again.
You have so many friends at work?
We have to fill up my forms and please sign this for me?
Thank you and now please let me go to the class picnic?
Where should I go to attend college?
Followed your footsteps and this is awesome.
My holidays begin soon and I need you to pick me up from hostel.
I should have done better and made you prouder.
No. I want to explore my options.
It's okay. I'll be gone for just three years....five years.
I am a big girl now. I know what is right for me.
Why can't I be with this boy? I'll be just fine.
Leave me alone. Why don't you understand?

Apa! Apa!
You were right. I should have listened to you.
Now I will. You know better.
I just want to be your little girl.
Don't send me away yet! I don't want to go.
Apa! I'm unhappy. He doesn't want me and I can't do this anymore.
Can I come back home please?
Thank you Apa. You always have my back.
I am sorry for embarrassing you.
I will try harder.

Apa! Apa!
Please stay awhile. Let's watch a movie.
Discuss the books you taught me to love.
I know you are bored and tired these days.
Can I do something to help? Come stay with me.
Let's go on a trip.
It's my turn to show you something fun to do.
Let's fry dal and chicken and some pumpkin.
Like good ole times.
While Mom watch us amused.
Daddy and his little girl.




Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Bye-bye Blackbird

Image @Internet

Bye-bye Blackbird! 
Tonight I fly, into the unknown.
The night is thick and laden with emotions.
Lights blinking in the distance.
Misty eyed, I grope in the haze.
Guide me home twinkling stars.
The moon hangs like an old man.
She's tired. 
Like me.
Ripe litchi, sweet on my lips.
My throat is parched.
I need my sleep.

Tomorrow I will hum a new tune.
Bye-bye Blackbird.
Another crow will take your place.